Movies like Sandor slash Ida

A young teen lives life in the fast lane. Already using lots of drugs. Alcohol. Her mother too. Father abroad, and unwilling it seems. "The viewers" (Our hero) young teen meets a another (The other hero) who lives life too slow, and he's overprotected. They meet in a chat room, and live in different towns. HE dances ballet, cause most of his family pressure him. SHE dances in a more subtle way, cause most of her friends pressure her - They kind of hate their lives, the way it's going. Some times new doors opens a bit though. Maybe wide even. Can they be one of very few duo's, who actually work in our time? Can they show us the way? Love in every way?