Books like To My Children's Children

Exceptionally written. Made up of words which had my emotions all over the place.Mama Sindiwe emptied herself. She poured all which she wanted her grandchildren and great-grandchildren to know. About her beginnings. Her dreams as a girl, young lady, mother, wife and grandmother.The book is made up of 5 short stories each depicting a stage, a journey of Mama Sindiwe's life. All told in a prose so deliciously fluid that the smudges of Xhosa didn't throw me off. Actually, they added to the narrative.My first encounter with Mama Sindiwe was a few years ago when m book club was reading "Forced To Grow". I gave it 3 stars. I was judgy and in hindsight, realised that I was too quick to jump to baseless conclusions. I found her account whiney and written form a position of weakness. I forgot that it was "herstory" and she was telling it. I do not apologise but I am more understanding of her actions, feelings then."To My Children's Children" is short, only 183 pages long. I found that though it was an easy read, no bombastic words, the diction used packed a punch. I found myself reading reflectively. This book, as much as it is Mama Sindiwe's account of her life to future generations, it also forced me to think of how do I want to be remembered. I'd love to live forever, but at some point, I will be gone and what legacy will I leave for my children's children. Mama Sindiwe barred all. Hid nothing. Exposed herself to me, the reader. I felt every emotion she was feeling. I walked barefoot with her. I drank fresh cow's milk with her. I performed domestic chores with her. I dreamt her dreams. I wanted her wants. Except for Luthando. Sometimes I questioned her decision making process. I celebrated her wins and cried when she hurt.The book ends where "Forced To Grow" begins. For a full account, I'd suggest that you read both.Well done, Mama. My life pales in comparison to yours. I celebrate your resilience and persistence. I celebrate your never-give-up-attitude and your optimistic outlook.#AsIWaitForItToBePrescribed