Books like Parenting with Grace: Catholic Parent's Guide to Raising Almost Perfect Kids

I read this book hoping to find additional ways to parent better. There are some of those nuggets to be found in this book, but the overall impression that I get is that if you are not spending 12 hrs a day, per kid, you are not parenting correctly. I am tired of reading material made for the one or two kid family. What does one do when you cant take one kid aside and spend time to "settle" them down because the other children still need the parent? Most of the examples in this book stem from absentee parents who only see their kids from 6-8 pm and maybe on a weekend, but not for the parent who spends time with their children but still needs help in parenting. I was also turned off by the authors writing style, his making the reader feel guilty, and the fact that he refers to his other books about every other page. I would not recommend this book to others.