Books like Tell Me Why

I have major pet peeves that this book touches on. 1. male pov clearly written from a woman, and lack of alternating language. Men do not think like women, some women authors can do a great job writing a male pov. This isn't one of them. Caleb is suppose to be a player, bad ass rock star, he sounds like a vaaj-jay. (if you know what I mean.) 2. all the characters are jamming and thinking the same thing. in real life people have different views of a situation. How does her mom, and her, and caleb, and etc... all think the same way about a situation. weird. not likely. 3. things are total drama but things work out like butter. um? how? Life is complicated. so why do these books work out like the biggest f*ck fest didn't just occur. 4. the teenage characters are more mature than I am. Not likely. 50 year old wise woman in the disguise of a 18 year old girl???