Books like PoMoSexuals: Challenging Assumptions About Gender and Sexuality

This is probably the best book about gender and sexuality I've ever read. It discusses the many different facets of human sexuality that aren't necessarily mapped out by what you have between your legs or on your chest. In a world of cookie cutter voidoids who identify themselves purely by their sexuality (gym bunny fags and Michigan *barf* Womyn's Music Festival Nazis) not to mention the vast, dismal sea of heterosexism found in every-other-straight relationship out there, it's nice to read about people not afraid to realise that everything is a construct and they can be whatever the hell they feel like being...and sexuality...it's great...but it's not your definition of self. This book has temporarily saved my life, acting as a reminder (in a predominantly hetero/conventional relationship/sexuality town) that those outside the norm of stereotypical gay or nauseatingly straight actually do exist!