Books like No Disrespect

Do not mess with a married at all, ever, for any reason. It does not matter what he tells you. He may say he’s getting a divorce. Wait until he gets one before you go anywhere with him, before you touch him, before you kiss him, even before you have a lot of conversation with him. He will tell you he doesn’t love his wife. Or he will tell you he does love his wife, but not the same way he loves you. He will tell you that the two of you can be together forever. He will tell you that he’s only with his wife because he loves his children. Then he will say he doesn’t love her. He will tell you he hasn’t slept with his wife for months. No matter what he tells you, don’t go for it. Do not mess with a married man. He will take your sex and go back to his wife. You will end up crying and in pain. Moreover, by messing with a married man you will be helping to destroy a family, an African family, which already is struggling to survive. To steal away with the father of someone else’s children is wrong. You would not want it done to you once you get married. Remember: Anything a married tells you is a lie because, after all, he already promised God that he would honor his marriage. If he lied to God, the preacher, the state, and his wife, he will certainly lie to you. 357